As a survivor of severe postpartum depression [PPD], I like to bring the topic out of the shadows and help women feel comfortable discussing this uncomfortable topic.
I mean, who wants to voluntarily admit that they aren’t thrilled to be a mom?? Who wants to admit that they dream of going back to work every day?? And who wants to admit that they’ve thought about harming themselves or their baby??
Nobody.
Nobody is comfortable admitting any of this. Society tells us that new motherhood is supposed to be the happiest time of our lives, with a cute bouncing baby who cuddles and coos. So admitting that we actually aren’t having such a blissful reality, that in fact it’s been quite the opposite, is a scary conversation to begin even with friends and family.
The fear of being judged.
The fear of having your baby taken away.
The fear of looking like a bad mother.
These fears hinder our ability to reach out for help. Luckily, there are many resources on the Internet that help women begin the process of coming out of the shadows and feeling comfortable admitting that, like I had to admit to myself here, everything is really not okay.
So, as part of the 10 Things of Thankful Weekend Blog Hop, I am sharing these 10 great resources that I’m thankful for. I hope these will help any woman who finds herself suffering from a little more than the Baby Blues.
1. This great video, with a humorous twist, from a PPD sufferer:
2. A weekly phone chat with PPD sufferers and experts:
3. Great Informative Website About PPD:
4. Jenny’s Light Is One Of My Favorites. It Is An Organization Started By A Husband After His Wife Suffered From PPD & Took Her Life & The Life Of Their Infant Son:
5. Alanis Morissette Tells Her Story About Dealing With PPD:
6. A Website Full of PPD Resources, Survivor Stories, & Encouragement:
7. Quick Questionnaire To See If You Are Suffering From PPD:
8. One Woman’s Personal Blog About Her PPD Suffering & Survival:
9. Jammies For A Cause – Proceeds SupportPPD Research & Education:
10. WONDERFUL & HILARIOUS book by a PPD Survivor & Mommy Blogger @ http://www.dooce.com:
If someone you love is struggling with the baby blues or possibly postpartum depression, please share this list with her. If you are suffering from postpartum depression, SPEAK UP and seek help. This isn’t something you can power through on your own. There’s no shame in speaking up for yourself and your baby.